"Missing" Mood

I miss him. Sometimes, it seems to me that he's standing there or approaching. Sometimes, other men remind me of him if they have the same body or look.
It's not over yet. I still have feelings for him. I miss how we felt together.
I wonder if he still thinks of me too...if he misses me. Did he start another relationship? Did he throw our memories away? Do I still mean anything to him?
Am I reconsidering the whole situation? Does it feel like I can give him another chance?
I don't even know.
I'm still hurt. I'm sure I cannot stand the feeling that my freedom is being chained or that I'm always a suspect. However, I know I felt something towards him that I never felt with anyone else and I miss that thing. So, the question is would I sacrifice freedom for love? I don't think I can do that. But I cannot sacrifice love too.  I cannot continue in a relation or decide to marry unless I really feel in love.
That's the hard equation... 

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